Sometimes I wonder what Buffy would think about all of the ship wars and the arguments: did she belong with Angel, or Spike, or Riley…. I think she would be absolutely disgusted. She is such a strong character who has changed so much from the 1st season. She is brave and kind and selfless, and yet people still seem to boil her down to two or three relationships she had. It is an insult to both Buffy and the show itself.