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As a whole, BtVS is awesome, but at times I felt the show was saying that males aren’t worth a damn. With good witches being only female, the Vengeance Demons only catering to stupid female whims, Xander’s status as buttmonkey and lowly human while his best friend because a powerful witch, the horrific screwing up of Buffy’s father (which I will NEVER accept), and men generally being either the problem or most prominently casualties. Giles and Oz are kind of the aversion, but usually are underused.

As a whole, BtVS is awesome, but at times I felt the show was saying that males aren’t worth a damn. With good witches being only female, the Vengeance Demons only catering to stupid female whims, Xander’s status as buttmonkey and lowly human while his best friend because a powerful witch, the horrific screwing up of Buffy’s father (which I will NEVER accept), and men generally being either the problem or most prominently casualties. Giles and Oz are kind of the aversion, but usually are underused.



  1. alexander-nilsson reblogged this from buffyconfessions
  2. ravensrandoms reblogged this from cocklordsimone and added:
    Also, you’re clueless. How could you not see that just as Buffy was the force, Xander was the heart of the group. He was...
  3. tenpointsfromgryffindor reblogged this from meghantheinvincible and added:
    “But what about the mens” SHUT UP YOU ALREADY HAVE YOUR SHOWS LEAVE OURS ALONE
  4. meghantheinvincible reblogged this from drivelbaby and added:
    Reblogging for the comments. Joss took the ‘blond cheerleader who’s always the first to die in a horror movie’ trope and...
  5. ana-coluthia reblogged this from buffyconfessions and added:
    This doesn’t even make sense. ONE vengeance demon...whims.” The whole point
  6. pussybeard reblogged this from buffyconfessions and added:
    confessor is getting at. I’m...guy, and I do see what
  7. ispeaknewsspeak reblogged this from buffyconfessions and added:
    LOL Uh, did you not ever read...interviews where Joss talks about his inspiration for...
  8. thecray reblogged this from colourmeunfinished and added:
    man uncomfortable with women having more power than
  9. cocklordsimone reblogged this from colourmeunfinished and added:
    Oh no, I guess you’ll have to watch one of the hundreds of other male oriented shows. Poor you.
  10. colourmeunfinished reblogged this from buffyconfessions and added:
    Not sure why you would NEVER accept Buffys relationship with her father. It...far from...
  11. lemonrow reblogged this from buffyconfessions and added:
    Okay, let’s just wait one teeny tiny moment here: 1. Giles- under-used?! I can’t think of many episodes, in the first...
  12. wecanslay-it reblogged this from buffyconfessions and added:
    kindly disagree… The Xander point: Remember when Buffy gave...Xander about how he was “her...
  13. saylavalentina reblogged this from buffyconfessions and added:
    I see your point,...lot of my strength from Xander. He’s
  14. caramellattekiss reblogged this from kungfucarrie and added:
    First up, Xander is freaking awesome. He’s the heart of the group. They need him just as much as they need Willow. His...
  15. khaoschilde reblogged this from buffyconfessions and added:
    think I’m having one...those now. Grrh Argh!
  16. qualapec reblogged this from buffyconfessions and added:
    male domination in fiction isn’t enough for you.
  17. unhealthytvobsession reblogged this from doyourwardance
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  21. doyourwardance reblogged this from buffyconfessions and added:
    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA… *breathes* HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHHHAHA. Oh. oh,...
  22. christopher-j-rutty reblogged this from katslucky1231
  23. katslucky1231 reblogged this from buffyconfessions and added:
    True in some ways,...whims” is wrong. That was Anya’s deal. Halfrek’s was children(as seen...
  24. holliehobbit reblogged this from buffyconfessions and added:
    never thought Xander...shown as any lesser than the rest for
  25. butterfliesonmywrists reblogged this from buffyconfessions and added:
    whole group of Initiative People… who were comprised of entirely men except for
  26. goodnessglacious reblogged this from buffyconfessions
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  28. ktm20 reblogged this from buffyconfessions and added:
    suggest Angel, where...damsels in distress. Or, you know, EVERY OTHER SHOW EVER.
  29. subtletysmyweakness reblogged this from magentafeelings and added:
    I’m glad someone said what I was going to. Aside from assuming the gender of the submitter of this. I don’t care whether...
  30. marieirene reblogged this from buffyconfessions and added:
    is underused..? Lol.